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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 20.06.2025 11:42

How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Ask yourself:

What CIA front organizations operated in the United States during the 1960s?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do you believe that the portrayal of smoking in films and music videos contributes to the glamorization of cigarettes in society?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What do you respect the most about Elon Musk?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why are liberals so bad at grasping alternative facts? For example, if something doesn’t happen the exact same way Trump described it, liberals dismiss it as false; while conservatives are able to fully understand the underlying principle.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why can't ugly women date hot guys? I know a woman who wants a hot BF but people would just laugh at her and ask her "what can you bring to the table for him?", isn't that messed up?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Do you agree that firearms are the most common weapon used in homicides of spouses, intimate partners, children or relatives? Should this data influence gun control policies?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Does the West have a defense against China's PL17 air-air missile?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do gun owners feel the need to defend themselves with deadly weapons? Can they not just talk things out like civilized people do?

That's it for today.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

My parents force me (15yo atheist) to go to church, and there’s this thing called Small Sundays where we discuss the Bible in groups, there are questions asked about the Bible. What am I supposed to do when they ask?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What would it take for you to consider yourself a "Swiftie" like Flavor Flav?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What is the funniest husband-wife comedy team ever: Abbott & Costello, Martin & Lewis, Burns & Allen or something else entirely?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Does not procrastinate.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Why do people smoke?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What I need from you?

My wife has a bunch of really attractive friends, and she expects me to never say anything to her about how beautiful they are. Does this seem fair? I love my wife, and just commenting shouldn’t hurt anything, right?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Hangs out with loser friends.